Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

Is it Friday yet??!!! Once again... Bio-Dad is on a roll... Picked up B today..

B has a mole that has to be removed from his back. It is not a nice looking mole. The doctor wants to remove it. It is one of the moles that looks like it could turn into cancer and they need/should remove it, just in case. The doctor doesn't think it would be malignant, but you never know.. there is a small chance.. but it should be fine. I notified Bio Dad of this procedure when we found out about it last week, but he never returned my call. So, today, he picks up B and tells B that he will talk to the Doctor and then make the decision of if he needs it removed. ...... I think it's okay for him to get to talk to the doctor.. that is fair.. but to make the decision?!! He's nuts!! He is just something else.. When I picked up B from the police station, he tried to take B and hold him at his side so B couldn't go if he wanted to.. I told him to let him go.. and Bio-Dad says, "I just want to talk to you about visitation." I said, "that's fine, but you aren't going to hold him hostage!!"... He always wants to talk visitation like I have the right to change what it says in the papers or do whatever I want... It's so frustrating!!!! The lady at the front desk must have heard me say let him go.. because she interferred and told Bio Dad to leave B and go.... A cop showed up and made sure Bio Dad didn't leave with B when he had to go get his back pack from his car. Why B didn't have his backpack with him.. I don't know??

Anywho.. that was probably confusing.. but I needed to process it!!! Thanks for listening!!

Hmmm

So..I am super excited.. Just about 2 weeks until we leave for florida!! I am so nervous about having everything ready and I would like the vacation to go off without a hitch! :) .. It would be nice!! :)

Not much to say about this weekend. Bio-Dad didn't pick up B and Bio-Mom picked up C this morning. C will most likey be back tomorrow sometime.. or at least I hope so considering my parents are visiting!! C knows to call us if he wants to come home!

I have had quite a productive weekend as in cleaning and laundry. .. other than that.. I have just enjoyed being home for once!

He's Out

So, I am at work today.. and I got kind of a surprise. Every Tuesday we have meetings until 4pm. I got a phone call at around 3:45 from B's After School Program teacher. I thought she might be calling to ask if B could play with her son because they are like best friends. WELL, I WAS WRONG.. she was calling to tell me that Bio-Dad had just come and picked B up from school.. .and she was confused because I had told her that he would be in jail until November 20!! Well, little did I know.. that he must have paid his bail and got out. His bail is what he owed me which is nice because I will get a check for that.. but he never told me he was out, never told me he was coming to get B and no one in the court system has ever notified me of this either! I was scared to death that he was going to take B and run. Thank goodness.. he did show up with him, but at my house when I was not home. I was out at Wal-Mart keeping myself busy and trying not to think the worst. For those of you that don't know Bio-Dad.. .he is pretty much capable of anything.. including taking my child and running..... So, I had to tell B that I would be at the police station (where we are suppossed to do pick ups and drop offs) in about a half an hour.. which is the TIME that he is suppossed to get dropped off. I was nervous, but with a cart full of food.. I was just glad that he had called, and Bio-Dad didn't oppose when I said it would be that long.

Now, I am just taking deep breaths and thanking goodness that my son is home safe and sound.. . and then I am crawling in my skin because I thought he would be locked up for a while and not have to worry about these weekend situations and all of that.. Darnit.. it is almost like he wins again.. he didn't sit in jail long enough to realize what he has been doing to his son.. .. just like today....... I feel like he isn't picking up B to see him.. because if he was he would have at least called and told B he was coming... He did this to get under my skin...and in a really messed up kind of way....... ugh!

Sleepless in Woodstock!

Hey there.. I'm having trouble sleeping. You would think that after a hotel night of sleep last night that I would be able to sleep tonight.. ha ha.. I wish :).... I don't know why I go through all this insomnia stuff. I have such a difficult time falling asleep. I wish I was like R who just lays down and shuts his eyes and falls asleep! Ugh!!

So, had a good week and weekend. This is Columbus Day weekend so the kids have no school tomorrow. I am taking them up to Milwaukee Zoo with their Cousins and a friend of mine so that should be fun. R and I spent the weekend up in Sheboygan, WI for a bike race, but R didn't race. We were just visiting because it was the last race of the year. R has decided to put racing off to the side since we have purchased the motorcycle. That has become more our hobby, although it feels more like R's right now because he is still learning and getting the hang of it. I am fine with that though, as I want him to be super comfortable with me on the bike before I go for any 'long distance' rides. We need to get a new seat that will be more comfortable for both of us!!

We are headed to Florida in a few weeks! I can't wait! B has been there a lot of times, but C has never ever been on an airplane so I am excited to see C's face when we get on it and go!! I think both boys will have a blast! We are headed to Disney World and NASA. NASA happens to have an air and water show going the same weekend we are there so we are excited to see that. I guess it is starring the Blue Angels.

Well, I feel like I'm boring everyone.. so I am going to sign off.. and maybe try to go back to bed. They always say you should get up and go do something else for a while.. so that's what I'm trying :)!!! Hope everyone had a good weekend.. and J-Columbus Day....it should be an observed American Holiday for those of you in Finland :)!!

Hmph!

So... I don't know if you all know this.. but you can look up inmates in a county jail to see if they are there. I don't know how often they update them.. but I looked up Bio-Dad and he is still not on there!! ugh!! I am now wondering if he is out!!??!! I will just have to keep checking everyday!

I'm tired...

COURT

Well, today I had the second half of my root canal.. and right now it hurts a lot.. a lot worse than it did on Saturday... :)

B got an ear infection last night, so I took him to immediate care and they said it was pretty bad. I'm not surprised.. He had a cold for a week or so and then it cleared up "all of a sudden".. . well, it didn't clear up, it just clogged his ear!! :).. Well, from the medicine, or a bug.. I'm not sure.. B was in the bathroom all night,and then threw up this morning.. YUCK.. problem is.. I had court today.. I asked the MIL to help watch him and she did. That was nice of her.. and a good thing too.. because I don't think Benjamin should have seen what happened at court today.....

Bio-Dad got put in jail. He did not even attempt to pay me any money at court, and did not want to admit that he hasn't paid anything at all since July..... He left in handcuffs.. . His bail is the amount he owes, or he stays until November 20. I told B that his dad is in jail for not being responsible. B is sad, but I think it is good that he knows the truth. I don't lie to my children!!! I don't think that is a good habit to get into.. and B is old enough to figure it out anyway!!! So, that's the story. I wish I could say I had a 'funner' day off of work.. but it really wasn't!!